Leave it alone.

The less you care, the happier

you will be.

So a dear friend of mine was well is having some troubles with some boy crap that's going on in her life and she was basically saying that she was tired. Tired of all the crap that's happening and how all she want's is for it to go right for once in her life and that she really wished that things had gone different with certain people and how she wished that it was this person instead of this person and blah blah blah....

I said that you know what? You will find it one day. I've realized this with all the crap that I've been going through with a certain person that it's okay to have it just be you and not you and someone else. You have to stop looking. Stop searching.

Live your life the way that you want to live it without all that crap. Throw it away. Toss it in the garbage and go be you. Go do you and you'll be fine. And I'm not saying stop dating... that's not it. What I'm saying is that if you truly stick to who you are, go to school, go to work, meet new people without trying to find that "hot guy," one day you'll wake up and that person will be home. One day you'll just being doing your usual thing and then all of a sudden... you'll see what's been staring at you right in the face. And you'll be like "OH! Okay, I see now." They'll be that home, that happiness for you and you wont even notice it because you were too busy being you and being the light that you are without the "I'm searching for that guy," type of persona.

Stick to being you and doing what you love, and the rest will follow through and fall into place.

Look for it, but you’ll never find it all
Let it go, live your life and leave it
Then one day, wake up... -The Fray